Why are you not approaching women either? It’s possible that there are many reasons why you have not found the courage to. I can give you some ideas of some of the reasons why you are not approaching women.
First, you are not doing it because you don’t know how. Some of the people that we meet are interested in us and wanted have a conversation we would be having, and maybe we are shy because we are a little shy.
If it’s happened once, you are probably telling yourself that you should have a good conversation then you realize that you can recover from your shyness.
Let’s see some of the reasons why other people do not approach
- You can’t approach her because she is with a group of people.
If you’d like to see her again, it’s going to be a group of women. Since you couldn’t approach her, you were not able to see if she is available.
- You are not her type.
So you realize that you are a little shy, which is why you decided to go to this bar. The problem here is that you really are a little shy, and you meet people of the opposite sex every single day. If you are a shy person generally . . . well, do not make that expression any more.
If you or she is not your type, then that’s okay. As soon as you find that out, move on. There are plenty of others.
- You did not introduce yourself to her.
Okay, you are shy and insecure, and you don’t want to admit that you just did not approach her, so you stay quiet instead approaching women. This gives her the security that she doesn’t need.
It would have been better if you just say “hi, I’m yours.” That would have answered the question. But since you are so shy, that may not happen.
C’mon people, the ball is in your court. Do not stand there wondering if you do not know how to approach women. If you are that interested, you will do it. It’s not like it is the end of the world when she makes the first move.
Don’t wait for the magic words. Say something, anything, and you might get a smile instead of a slap.
Here are some other reasons why you are not approaching women
- You are afraid of rejection
There are going to be rejections. You should keep an open mind, and expect that yes, rejection will happen at some point.
- You are concerned about strangers
You spend all your time your favorite hobbies and favorite places in your home, and you do not take time to approach women. You are all basically shy, self-conscious people from this and other reason. This is normal for us but happens to many people.
- You don’t know how to approach women
This probably is a bigger one, but it doesn’t help. Sometimes you just don’t know in the first place. You have to have a road map of how to approach women so that you do not do something that you will regret later on. It helps to have at least a clue. But the more you know, the easier it will be approaching women.
In conclusion, realize that all of us could probably learn how to approach women, you just need to practice saying, “hi” and “what’s up?” Be kind to yourself and practice. Apply what you learn by practicing applying what you have learned. How to approach women can be learned very easily, there is no need to panic.