Most men would have a hard time starting a conversation with a woman if he doesn’t have much experience in this area. We have all been rejected more than once by a girl before because we keep on proposing wrong questions which is as puzzling as it is terrifying.
I have learned a few things through experience in dealing with these problems and I would like to share them to you to help you deal with the problems of starting a conversation with a woman as soon as you can.
What Should You Say to Her?
Whether you are going to talk about music, movies or just walking the Singai Plain, you should find something that interests you both before you choose to open your mouth and say something. Make sure that you understand what she is interested in and that you have something in common. Then you can start with something simple and diffuse in order to increase your chances of success.
Make a Good Impression
She has already accepted you, so now is the time to make a good impression on her. One of the mistakes that I usually make when I get women interested in me is that I keep on talking, talking and talking.
If you are in a club, ask her how she can dance and then when she starts to dance with you, ask her to tap your shoulders and the like. Another thing that you can do is to ask her how she is enjoying the night and if she is having fun, too.
One of the mistakes that I find the most men are at times reluctant to do this because they feel if they do, the girl will lose interest. Don’t worry, it is done its’ job and will make her interested in you if you have the guts to do it.
Getting her interested is not the hard part, it is the getting her comfortable being around you. When you have successfully made her comfortable, you can now introduce yourself, tap her shoulders and the like.
The next thing is not to go for the kill right away and just keep on talking to her, too. If you do this, you will only scare her away and she might even loose interest in you because she will think that you are so desperate and if you get to that point, your night will be over so fast. Instead, after you have chatted with her for a couple of minutes, ask her to dance with you.
The next step is to create sexual tension
It’s easier to get to her feet if you are already in the right spot. Never stick with the conventional tactics of talking to her or complimenting her because this is not what gets you to the next level.
Instead of complimenting the one you are with, try to make her feel uncomfortable. If she is a girl with low self esteem, she might feel a little self conscious and if she is a more confident one, she might feel uncomfortable if you keep complimenting her. The solution is to give unconventional compliments at unexpected times in order for her to start noticing you more. Another effective technique for you to get her interest is to tell her that you find her sexy. This statement will implant a seed of doubt into her mind.
See, the girl thinks a lot of you even if she does not say so. The moment you compliment her, she copies your actions. This creates a bond with both of you, so be careful not to overdo things.